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Troubleshooting: Special Needs

Kristen wrote: So our youngest son was just diagnosed with Sensory Processing Disorder. Any advice on homeschooling and special needs? Both for the child with special needs and how it affects homeschooling other children… And Sara wrote: I second the request for advice/resources for homeschooling special needs children. I have 3 girls. My first (age 5) has auditory processing challenges, aspergers and sensory processing disorders and probably some ADHD thrown in there. My 2nd has just turned 3, and sharp as a tack, loves learning, and is beginning to read and while I’m drawn to just jump in with both of them at the same level, I can’t seem to teach both of them at the same time! Then I have an 8 month old and one on the way in August (you understand that!), so while I was imagining myself officially “starting” homeschooling this coming fall, I’m completely overwhelmed at the thought! You are always so full of wisdom and grace. Any advice, encouragement, direction, resources would be wonderful! And Michelle wrote: Hi Kendra, I’m pretty sure that my son has some sort of learning disability. He is almost unable to read and comprehend written instructions. Oral explanations of more complex things must be numerous and stated many different ways in order for him to understand if he can at all. He is nine now but didn’t even speak well until he was 4+. (Early on he was tested and autism, hearing impairment and ADD were ruled out.) He and I both have learned coping strategies (I’ve been teaching him for 3 years) but he’s no where near his grade level in most subjects and I am getting to feeling very desperate. Testing isn’t what I’m looking as we live in a very small town and resources are few and far between. I was wondering if you or your readers know of any homeschooling sites here on the web or of books that deal with teaching kids with auditory processing issues/language issues?? I’d so appreciate reading of other homeschooling moms’ experiences and advice who are in this situation. Thanks! I was thinking, "How do I help these women? Where do I send them for help?" Our foray into special needs is just beginning, and as we do not know the extent of Mighty Joe's "issues", we will have some learning to do ourselves. God is SO good. All the time. He provides when we ask for wisdom: "But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all generously and without reproach, and it will be given to him." James 1:5 First, I was reminded of an old post my friend Caroline wrote about life with her daughter Gillian, who is retarded. There's encouragement and wisdom there. Then, in the comments, Kathy wrote: To Sara & Michelle– When the Brain Can’t Hear by (Terri James Bellis) and Like Sound Through Water (by Karen J. Foli) are excellent books for Auditory Processing Disorder. There is also a Yahoo group called AuditoryProcessing that has regular moms as well as professionals. What you describe very much sounds like Auditory Processing Disorder. Check the Dyslexia warning signs list at Bright Solutions . Click on the “Symptoms of Dyslexia” link at the top. Many children with APD also have the most common form of Dyslexia (the same section of the brain is used in both). Many people are not aware of the symptoms. For those homeschooling children with Sensory Processing Disorder: You can come visit my blog for some homeschooling ideas :) If you only have one book, get The Out of Sync Child Has Fun by Carol Kranowitz. It’s filled with great ideas to work into your childs sensory diet. Also, Carol Barnier is my favorite person ever. Her books, The Big What Now Book of Learning Styles and How to Get Your Child Off the Refrigerator and on to Learning are filled with great ways to encorporate learning with activity. There is also a Yahoo group called sensoryhomeschool. I have a bookmarks page on my blog that I tried to break down into categories. You can scroll down to whichever category interests you. Chances are I have at least a half dozen links ;) I really need to put together some blog posts addressing homeschooling special needs kids. Anyone want to come babysit while I type for a week? ;) ~Kathy (mom to 3 special needs children with too many diagnoses to list, but here are a few: dyslexia, auditory processing disorder, sensory processing disorder, dyspraxia, dysgraphia, etc., etc., etc.)
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Keeping Babies Busy While Making Dinner
Jackie McCobb posted this adorable picture on Facebook last week and I just had to ask her to share it here for you all. Jackie writes: Ah! The dinner hour. Blood sugar levels are low, babies need their mommies and everyone is hungry. Even though dinner time here is as easy as easy could possibly be (popcorn, again? yes, I think so.) it still gets hectic. I grew up in the warm, humid country of Venezuela where my parents were missionaries and it was there that I came upon this idea. Women there have stacks of shallow plastic buckets, or tubs, that they use for laundry. We call them "poncheras" and I don't know what they would be called in English. They use them for laundry, for storing things, and for bathing Baby anywhere in the house. I think of it as a portable bath tub, and once my babies can sit on their own I just have to have one. She plays in her tub while I make dinner, work on the computer, or read books to her older sisters. What baby doesn't love water? She's so happy. Since we live in Paraguay, all of our floors are tile,which I love, and clean up is a breeze. Throw a few old beach towels underneath the tub to catch an splashes or spills and you're set. I hope this idea brings a little more peace to your home as it has to mine. -Jackie
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Balancing Academics and Life: Wisdom from Elizabeth
I've written several times about one of my favorite authors/bloggers/internet mentors, Elizabeth Foss. I just soak in her blog posts, hoping to absorb her gentle spirit and her deep devotion to the Savior. I am not a Catholic mom, but I have learned so much from Catholic moms like Elizabeth and Holly Pierlot about being purposeful in our prayer lives and devotions. I wrote to Elizabeth several years ago, and am not only pleased that she responded last week, I am encouraged that I'm not the only blogger who finds it difficult to respond to emails in a timely manner!  Can we just redefine "timely" to mean "within a couple of years?" I'd feel so much better. :) Anyway, Elizabeth answered my question,  "How do you think moms can better maintain a balance between academic excellence and the nurturing of relationships with their children?  Are they mutually exclusive?" The answer is good.  Good good. This is why I love reading Elizabeth's blog. ♥ Kendra
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Making Banana Bread and Memories
I'm so excited to share this post with you, written by Gabe Harder. Gabe has a great spirit about having her little ones in the kitchen with her, and just think of how she's working herself out of a job! Those of you reading this in a reader will want to click through to see Gabe's adorable children! ♥ Cooking and baking are a big deal in our home.  I like to bake, and my kids have always spent quite a bit of time in the kitchen with me learning and "helping."  The extra time it took to have them there with me is really starting to pay off now that my older kids (10-year-old girl and 8-year-old and 7-year-old boys) are able to do quite a bit in the kitchen on their own.  My younger kids have the same desire to be in the kitchen helping, so recently I came up with the idea of having them make banana bread on their own.   This went so well that I plan to have them continue taking turns doing this once a week!

This is the recipe I used.  I like that it uses the apple sauce instead of oil.  I just picked up some of the individual sized cups of apple sauce, making this very easy for the little ones to handle.  I also use part whole wheat flour, but it works just fine using all white flour.  I've also cut the sugar in half from what the original recipe called for. Banana Bread Mix well in large bowl: 1 cup applesauce 1 cup sugar 4 bananas (mashed) 4 Tablespoons milk 4 eggs Mix in a separate bowl: 2 cups whole wheat pastry flour (from soft white wheat) 1 1/2 cups all purpose flour 1 teaspoon baking soda 3 teaspoons baking powder 2 teaspoons salt 2 teaspoons nutmeg (or just sprinkle a bunch in) Add flour mix to liquid mix, and mix well.  Pour into greased and floured loaf pan (this makes one large loaf or two medium loaves). Bake at 350°F for about 50 minutes.  It is done when a toothpick inserted comes out clean. The night before I measure out the dry ingredients.  The flour goes into one container, sugar in another, and baking soda/powder and salt into yet another small container.

My 2 1/2-year-old (who thinks she must be just about 10 like her big sister) was the first to try this.  I just sat her down at our little table by the kitchen (also where we do school) with a large bowl, measuring spoons, measuring cup, and the dry ingredients (minus the sugar) and let her have fun!  She had so much fun measuring and stirring, but she also took it very seriously.  She was making lunch for her family! *I also let her shake in a bunch of nutmeg from the spice container. She thought that was fun.

After she had mixed all of that up I had her start on a new bowl for the liquids.  She measured and mixed the sugar and apple sauce together.  I mashed up the bananas for her, and I also added the milk and eggs for her.  She mixed the flour into the liquids, though she did need a little bit of help.  An older sibling stepped in to help her with greasing the pan and pouring the batter in the pan.  I took care of putting it in the oven.

The next week my 5-year-old had his turn.  He did a great job, and I even let him crack the eggs on his own.  He had not done this before, but I knew he had been watching me and his older siblings.  He did a great job making sure that no shell went into the batter and keeping the area clean, even remembering to wash his hands after handling raw eggs.  He also needed some help with the last steps, but he was a bit more hands on.

Clean up is an important part of any project around our house, but I also try to keep realistic expectations.  My 2 1/2 year old picked up the garbage from the apple sauce and bananas and also took a few dishes into the kitchen.  My 5 year old took care of most of the clean up, but the table did need to be wiped down again after he was done. ;)

This activity kept each of my kids busy for a while (which is always GREAT!), but they were in the same area that the rest of us were working.  More importantly this gave them a head start on learning some cooking skills and an opportunity for each of them to serve their family.  They were each so excited as I took their loaf out of the oven and even more so as we sat down to lunch complimenting them on the good job they had done making lunch for us!  This is a great way to help little ones feel like they are contributing to the family and that they are wanted and needed (because they ARE!).  Little ones want to help, and so far I've found that by fostering that desire they continue in that attitude for years to come!

*this can also be done with a mix if you don't have time to measure things out ahead of time. ~Gabe Harder
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