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Teaching the Process of Writing
Would you mind sharing how you teach writing to your children? Not grammar or handwriting but the process of writing. -Brandi Whenever someone asks me how we teach our children the process of writing (a term paper, an essay, fiction, etc.), I cringe.  Writing is one of those things I don't teach. There are lots of reasons for this, not the least of which is the fact that I learned to write well because my mother is a good writer, as are my brothers.  One of them is twice published.  In spite of the paltry education the government provided, I learned to write by having my family read my writing and offer suggestions and corrections.  My mom also read aloud to us while we were growing up, so good literature was something with which we became familiar.  My high school English teacher told me I was better read than he was, which says a little about me but a whole heaping lot about the public high school I attended, known for its "high academic standards".  Hmmm.  That's not entirely fair; I had two stand-out teachers who required much in the way of writing and offered copious correction, but these were teachers in the "gifted" program and it bothers me greatly to think of how many kids not labeled gifted didn't receive good writing instruction at all. When it came time to delve into teaching my own children, I didn't bat an eyelash concerning the teaching of writing.  It's natural.  It just flows from who we are.  Do you see why the question of how we teach writing makes me cringe?  I have no concrete answer. I will tell you what exercises our children have done to strengthen their writing ability, and I'll be happy to answer your questions.  The easiest way for me to organize my thoughts on this subject is to go child by child, so I apologize in advance if this becomes tedious and boring. 10th Grade Boy- Strong natural writer.  Worked his way through English for the Thoughtful Child and Rod and Staff English books from first to fourth grade and then I let him go (this won me many Brownie points).  Has done upper level writing programs "for fun".  Listens to Andrew Pudewa workshops I pick up on CD and enjoys them. 8th Grade Boy- Antithesis of the above.  Started with English for the Thoughtful Child and Rod and Staff English.  Cried.  A lot.  I ditched the grammar books and just required heaps upon heaps of copywork until this year when he is working through Rod and Staff English 8.  Would cry if he knew he wouldn't look like a sissy.  Not really, but he finds it utterly distasteful.  However, he has a lot of required writing for Veritas Press Omnibus II, so we continue to plug away, refining and correcting and improving. 6th Grade Boy- Quite a good natural writer.  Started with English for the Thoughtful Child but not Rod and Staff.  I'm so confident in the 8th grade text that I am waiting to toss that his way next year or so.  He has loved Matt Whitling's series of books called Imitation in Writing, and I have loved the results so much that these are now a permanent fixture on our curriculum scene.  For fun, he's been working through How to Write a Story this year. 4th Grade Girl- English for the Thoughtful Child.  Copywork, copywork, copywork.  Dictation, too.  When we write notebooking pages for history, she either copies several sentences I write on the white board or she composes her own.  She's not a strong writer and finds spelling a challenge, but she's young yet and I think we'll start the Imitation in Writing series in the next year or two. 2nd Grade Girl- Same as above, except her spelling ability is excellent.  She's super right-brained (creative, verbal) so I suspect we'll see some neat things flowing from her pen one of these days. I wish I could give you "Ten Steps for Producing a Good Writer", but I can't.  Keep your eye on each student and see where their weaknesses lie.  There are so many excellent resources on the market these days that it shouldn't be too difficult to find ways to challenge your young writers. If you're looking for a writing mentor for your students, Patrick Henry College has a program for you: Patrick Henry College Writing Mentors
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It's That Time of Year Again

Christmas 2006 --- It's true- they grow way too quickly

The annual break.  Because my brain can only hold so much info, and the details of Christmas and eight kiddos push everything else right OUT of my brain. May I ask a small favor?  If you are doing any Christmas shopping online, would you consider shopping through the Preschoolers and Peace Amazon Store? Whenever you do, the profits go toward the cost of maintaining the site.  And you don't even have to purchase anything from the store itself!  If you get to Amazon and decide to purchase something entirely different, Preschoolers and Peace still gets a referral fee.  That goes for any time you purchase anything through one of the Amazon links on the site. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving and Christmas, everyone.  See you in January! ~Kendra
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On Field Trips, Nature Days, and Other Exciting Times With Little Ones in Tow

Nature Day, September 2008

Have you been blessed to meet older, wiser women who blog and write online?  Barbara McCoy is one such mentor for me, and last month her daughter Amanda (creator of the fabulous craft and nature kits) presented a nature day for the families in our church.  Barb, Amanda, and I all got to meet one another and I just loved soaking up all Barb's answers to the questions I asked her about home education. A few weeks later, Barb posted a series of photos from a trip to Oregon's coast. I kept thinking about how I'd love to do such a trip with my own kids, but can't imagine the trickiness of doing so with the babies accompanying us.  So I did what I typically do: I emailed Barb and asked her how one accomplishes such a wonderful adventure with little ones.  I knew her helpful reply had to be shared, because I know I'm not the only one! Thoughts on my travel and how you could do it with your family: 1. Planning. I spent hours on the internet looking for places that would fit our family's interests. We are studying marine biology right now and I wanted to find something for us to do that would enhance our academic book type learning. I found places that provided access to tidepools and to interpretive centers and that narrowed it down. Our trips are nearly almost tied to our school studies so it makes it more real and relevant....we went to Hawaii to study volcanoes, we went to the Channel Islands earlier this year to see marine mammals, and this trip was to study invertebrates and sea birds. 2. Try to keep driving time at a reasonable distance each day. Even with our roadtrips, I know that I can only have one really long travel day and then we need to plant ourselves in one place for at least two nights before taking another stretch on the road. This trip: Day one: long driving day from our house to Humboldt Day two: short drive to Patrick's Point Day three: short drive to Coos Bay and then spend two nights Day five: short drive to Newport and then spend two nights Day seven: long drive to Grant's Pass Day eight: long drive home (we had planned on staying two nights in Grant's Pass but it was COLD and we were ready to be home) 3. Prepare the kids ahead of time for what you are going to do on the trip. I nearly always make a "field trip binder" for the boys so they have an idea of what is expected of them on the trip. This time they were fairly free to just explore as we went along and I made sure to have some down time each day where they could play on the beach or take hikes around the campground. The big packet that they completed was something we printed off from the Oregon Coast Aquarium website and it had them looking at the exhibits in the aquarium (at Newport) for specific things. It was a huge success. When we took school to Hawaii a few years ago, the binder had things to do every day even it was just a reading assignment or a coloring page. It kept the boys focused on our purpose in being there. 4. For your family if you are not big on camping, Oregon State campgrounds have yurts you can rent and they would probably be ideal for your situation. It is still like camping but you have a place to get out of the weather and you don't have to haul a lot of equipment around. We are thinking about taking a yurt vacation next year. 5. I noticed that there were families traveling with lots of kids and those that seemed to be actually enjoying themselves had the littlest ones occupied in a way that was appropriate. Lots of backpacks and front packs on the trail...we used to use a backpack with the boys until they were well over two and then we just trained them to walk with us and it never was a big deal but we do a lot of hiking as a family so it seemed natural for them to transition. I know when we used to camp when the boys were little, I had a few strategies that helped keep my sanity. Bring a few small toys for them to play in the dirt with...it was always a hit. Bring lots of thrift store type clothes so when they got really dirty, I just threw them away instead of trying to bring home a 25 cent pair of pants to wash. Feed them well was always a good strategy too. Lots of good snacks that they could put in their own pockets and they usually carried their own water too either in a backpack or a bottle on a strap. 6. This is not the kind of trip we have always taken....we never would have attempted this with the kids when they were all young. It would have looked differently. We used to go to Yosemite camping with the understanding that if I got overwhelmed we would just pack up and go home. We went home early once in all the years we went but it was always nice to know it was an option. I did take all four children on a roadtrip by myself to Yellowstone when they were 3, 5, 10, and 13. I put down strict ground rules before we left and it is still one of our favorite roadtrip memories. (Looking back now, I was crazy.) Traveling is always an adventure and I try to keep that in mind each time we head out. You can not plan for everything but that is part of the fun. I was telling someone yesterday that if you hold all the cards and squeeze the life out of everything, no real learning takes place. Barb If you, too, appreciate Barb's wisdom, head on over to her nature blog or her fine arts blog and drop her a note.  And check out the sidebars-- they're filled with helpful ideas that will keep you very, very busy!  Thanks Barb!
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Bring Your Children to the Gospel Every Day
I have a little girl who is struggling with her sin a lot lately, not that we ever have a time when we are not.  It's just that hers seems to be rather visible and loud and dramatic at the moment.  These sins are hard to swallow but easier to battle; it's the hidden sin, the sneaky stuff that really troubles me as a mom.  If I fear man more than God, then the outwardly obnoxious sins of my children that embarrass me in front of other people chafe at me far more than the sins my children keep neatly tucked away, out of human sight.  But if I am fearing God more than man, I will hate it all and think as God thinks. In God's ecomony, sin is sin.  There are no levels or degrees of severity.  All of our sin, ALL of it, is putrid and filthy.  And there is nothing we can do about it.  There is not a prayer we can say, an amount we can pay, an act of any sort that will wipe away our guilt before God. But there is the Gospel.  The good news.  There is Christ.  Our Mediator.  Our righteousness.  Our Saviour.  The Good News is not just that He came to earth, died on the cross, was buried and rose again.  The good news is that He stands in our place before the judgment seat of God, on our behalf, and clothes us with His righteousness that we might be saved.  It is His work, not ours. I sat on the couch with my little girl tonight and told her the story all over again.  We marvelled together at the amazing truth that we, she and I, are completely unworthy and undeserving of God's grace and mercy.  As in Ezekiel, we were just dry old bones unable to pick ourselves up and dance without the breath of God blown through us.  And I took her to the Gospel.  The good news that Christ put on all our sin and filthiness and gave us His perfect cleanliness, his spotless cloak, as it were, so that we will one day stand before God as righteous, perfect people. The Gospel produces fruit.  The Gospel causes us to love Christ more.  Jesus said, "If you love Me, you will keep My commands".  Out of our love for Christ, we desire to obey Him better.  We, and our children. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Have you read The Priest With Dirty Clothes? It's a parable of the Gospel, and it speaks volumes to little ones just beginning to understand the good news.  One Wintry Night tells the story of redemption and the Gospel from creation to resurrection.
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Do Hard Things- Helping the Older Ones See the Beauty of Servanthood

My question is: how do I get my older children to not grumble about having to take turns playing with my preschooler while I homeschool? They grumble about making lunch for their younger sisters at times too. Thank you, and congratulations on little Joe! Beth Hi Beth- Recently I asked my husband about how to admonish one of our teen children. He (the child) is 500% more logical than I am, and it seems every conversation was a battle of wits for which I am ill-equipped. My husband said, "Turn to Scripture. The bottom line is, if God said it, he has to obey it. If the Holy Spirit isn't prompting him, then all the arguing in the world won't change his heart." Teens love to test the waters. And even if we have an excellent relationship with them, they will often grumble when they don't want to do something and argue their point to the death. For my son, his logical spin on everything is both a front-sided strength and a back-sided weakness; he is headed to law school to study Constitutional Law. His tenacity and love for rhetoric and debate will serve him well in that capacity, but in the meantime he also needs to learn when to turn it off and just be a servant to those around him. When appealing to your older children, turn to Scripture. Don't beat them over the head with it, but simply remind them that, "He who is greatest in My kingdom is the servant of all." You might want to pick up a copy of Do Hard Things, as well. My boys have been really challenged by the book, although it has been a slow and steady influence (I was hoping they'd read it and then -BAM!- be the hardest workers on the block!). The Holy Spirit's timing is never the same as mine :) ~Kendra
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Fall Circle Time
Summer is over, our vacation was wonderful, and now it’s time to buckle down and get back to school.  This year we are doing the bulk of our school subjects all together during our Circle Time, with the oldest two guys (15 and 13) popping in for our prayer time and the book we’re currently reading- Practical Happiness: A Young Man's Guide to a Contented Life. I recently read When People Are Big and God is Small and it made a huge impact on me.  We decided to make Isaiah 33:6 our theme verse for the year, and so we begin today by making a banner to hang with that verse reminding us Whom we are to fear.  Our Scripture memory for the fall also reflects the fear of God. -Fall 2008-
  • Theme: Isaiah 33:6
"Wisdom and knowledge will be the stability of your times, And the strength of salvation; The fear of the LORD is His treasure."
  • Prayer
  • Song, currently working on several Psalms
  • Scripture Memory:
Is 40:25 Ps 34:9-11 Ps 77:13 Hos 11:9 Is 57:15 Lev 26:12 Heb 13:5 Jn 15:14 Col 1:27
  • Ruth Heller Grammar books: the younger ones illustrate the words while the older ones illustrate, define, and create sentences.
  • Grammar Ace: Sonlight’s sole grammar curriculum, we’ll use this one to reinforce concepts and to shake things up a bit.
  • Word of the Day: the younger ones illustrate the words while the older ones illustrate, define, and create sentences.
  • Science Units (Wednesdays and Thursdays) (see Elizabeth Foss's beautiful Serendipity blog for unit studies)
Ponds & Frogs Bees Apples Electricity Dinosaurs Rocks and Minerals
  • Gratitude Journals- we'll be journaling all we're thankful for... more on these later...
It looks like a ton of stuff, doesn’t it?  I’m calculating 2 hours when I look at it all, and I’ve allowed for 2 hours and 15 minutes on our flow chart.  We need the extra cushion because we pretty much never do things exactly as the schedule plans.  The schedule is there to serve me, and I refuse to be run by it.  Still, if I didn’t have Circle Time written down, all of these ideas would never leave my head.  I just can’t think on my feet anymore.  Hmmm, I wonder why?
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