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Morning Sickness Revisited

I know it's iffy to post on a day when the morning sickness isn't knocking me out, but I *believe* I have had some success by keeping my stomach full of protein and by using Shonda Parker's Morning Soothe.  That little tincture has taken the edge off.

I am also taking Super Mom and Tummy Tune-Up, but it's hard to tell whether they're helping or not.  Yesterday was a bad day, today is better.

I was head-down in the shower trying to keep from throwing up last night when my 5-year-old walked by and said, "What are you doing?" (Side note: we have no door on our bathroom.  Six kids and no bathroom door.  What were the previous owners thinking???)

I said, "Trying to keep from throwing up."

"Oh", she replied.  "Well, if you throw up in there, make sure you clean it up.  And next time, run to the toilet as fast as you can."

That funny five-year-old

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Finding Quiet Time- Jennifer

I love what Jennifer has to say about quiet time with the children.  Also be sure to visit her very helpful site, listed below...

My oldest child “started” kindergarten two months after I delivered my fourth. I was so excited about homeschooling, but quite honestly, I was tired and overwhelmed. Just getting the basics down seemed impossible, let alone the endless list of “school subjects” I had diligently planned on covering this first year out. By February of the following year I was a complete basket case – no clean clothes, no clean dishes, and no formal school. I was failing at being a wife, a mom, and a teacher.

Then, through the wonderful ministry at Titus 2, I realized that I was failing at those things because I was failing at an even more important requirement: I was not having a regular quiet time with God. I was severely sleep deprived, had two children that no longer napped, and just couldn't seem to find time alone to do any studying. In reality, I didn't have any time alone to do anything (even when I was absolutely positive that I had covertly sneaked into the bathroom, little fingers found their way under the door!) Rather than try to find that time alone, I decided to do my quiet time/with the troops/. We began right at the beginning, in Genesis, and simply read a chapter together each day. Afterwards, we each made a page about the chapter. Sometimes we got downright creative, but mostly the pages were merely stick people that I drew and they coloured. We ended by singing a hymn, and praying about something. It would take most of the morning – with nursing and changing diapers and making snacks and finding the crayons (eventually we moved to pencil crayons, because they're less easy to eat!). My quiet time also became my schooling time. My little ones were learning to write, and draw and narrate, but most importantly, they were learning about God from, and with, their mommy. I remember reading through Exodus and feeling like an Israelite in the desert. Though things seemed tough, God was there caring for me, holding me, and showing me the way out. As my little ones grew, quiet time in the morning became more doable and school became more formal, and so things changed little by little to a more traditional quiet time. Recently as I added another little one, I was lamenting my lack of a “quiet” time again. And so we began again to have family quiet time – this time in the New Testament. The format is still the same – one chapter a day - but the responses have changed. There are still some who have me draw stick men (I'm getting good at those), but one writes out her observations now. The questions are becoming deeper and more complex, and I recently found myself, in a rare moment of free time, researching some information to share with them. God is so good, and so faithful. So, my quiet time isn't really quiet, and I still crave and need and look forward to time with just Him and me, but for now we're growing in Him together and we're growing together in Him. Blessings, Jennifer www.wonderfulpages.com

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Finding Quiet Time- Dana Ernst
First, I will confess that I can tend to complicate things, mess with the nitty gritty when all a matter needs is a focus on the big picture. With this in mind, during the sleep deprived years of night time nursings and caring for busy toddlers and preschoolers, I have made a concentrated effort not to complicate the precious moments I set aside to focus solely on the Lord and what he has for me that day. This was a lesson I learned within the time of the birth of my first 2 children and I felt that I wasn't growing in my relationship - but really it was my idea of growth that was marred. Somehow I attributed a deep study of theology or biblical history to mean true growth in Jesus. The Lord forced his was through my busy thoughts and said, "Keep it simple." So I packed a bag with a chronological bible, a journal, note cards (to copy verses on and tuck in my pocket or place by the kitchen sink) and a pen. This was key for me in keeping it simple, to have it all together, to take wherever it was I was to meet with the Lord that day. When my second son, an early riser was around a year old, I taught him to come snuggle up beside me; I would have his juice already waiting with his bible, coloring tools and a notebook. He knew to sit quietly and do his ‘quiet study' while I finished mine. Now at 7, this has become habit for us, to meet together in the morning. In a way he has kept me disciplined because I feel bad if he wakes up alone. He has told me how special these times are to him. With busy, needy children and now home schooling, the verse in my pocket keeps his word in my head and orders my mind by meditating on his commands. During the day I will jot down thoughts or lessons on the cards and tuck them in my journal in the evening. There have been times of deeper study, but keeping it simple has allowed me to listen more for what the Lord is trying to teach me, which is the big picture. -Dana
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Finding Quiet Time- Ann Voskamp

Always God: Nurturing Relationship with God in the midst of preschoolers

I live in a house with 1 baby, 2 preschoolers, 2 stretching children, 1 preteen, one gentle husband, and One Great and Glorious God. We live, and laugh, and love within these four walls…in the presence of Him Who knows no boundaries.

Practicing the Presence of God…

Children crawl up on couches, under blankets, unto laps for our Love-letter Time: each reading child reads their own volume of God’s love letter while I read aloud my day’s reading from the One Year Bible to the preschoolers. “David did what, Mama? “ “Jesus really loved us, didn’t he?” Together, we hear Him speak through His Word to our hearts. I scratch my reciprocating love notes in my prayer journal while littles copy down verses, coloring their remembrances of Love-Letter Time.

Children dig in the sandbox while I hang out my clothesline prayers: thank you for the legs that fill these pants, the arms that grace this shirt, the baby that sleeps in these pajamas.

I stir, children pour, I dice, children stir. We sing: “I love you, Lord. And I lift my voice, to worship You….”

We gather legos and blocks and order tractors and trains. Ora et Labora. This work is our prayer to You, Lord, our reasonable act of service, our worship and gift to the Giver of all.

I ring the dinner bell and children clamor around the table and steaming plates. We recite memory verses between bitefulls. Dear husband closes each of our three meals with Scripture reading, inviting one of the children to conclude with a prayer to the God of all. As we rise to clatter off the dishes and clean the kitchen counters, together we join our voices in a hymn of the faith, the song of praise we are learning that week.

Always Glory, Always Praise

In the midst of preschoolers, we do not package up the Prince of Peace, only to take Him down in fleeting moments of quiet… but we invite Him to be the center of our milieu, the axis of our days, the Son around which we all—babies, preschoolers, Mamas, and Papas, children and teens—revolve. His word is not confined only to a quiet time for “they are not just idle words for you—they are your life.”( Deuteronomy 32:47) In the midst of diapers and dishes, crayons and construction paper, life is our liturgy, life is our communing time with the Lover of our Souls.

As Eugene Peterson paraphrases Romans 11:36:

Everything comes from him; Everything happens through him; Everything ends up in him. Always glory! Always praise! Yes. Yes. Yes.”

Did you enjoy Ann's beautiful writing?  You can find more of her wonderful, meandering thoughts on her blog.

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Finding Quiet Time- Heidi Kemp
Heidi's words are encouraging, too, and if you are not a morning person (that's not me, either) you will appreciate her honesty.When I first read the question I thought How Do I find the Time?  When I first started down this road of motherhood I struggled with the universal thought that you should get up early and have your 30 mins to 1 hour devotions and prayer time with the Lord.  I have really struggled with this my whole Christian life.  You see I am not a morning person.  No matter how hard I have tried I know now that I am fighting a losing battle.  The problem is that everyone else that seemed so spiritual got up at dawn to have their time with the Lord.  The Lord has shown me though that the time of day is not important but the TIME is important. I now have my time with the Lord at really what might seem like the oddest times to some.  My longest period of time is probably no more than 30 mins (if I am lucky).  This is in the morning with my second cup of coffee (by morning I mean after 9am).  My girls 8 and 7 are busy with handwriting and phonics workbooks.  My boys 2 and 3 are usually outside playing.  This is when I do my Bible reading.  Understand I do not really have any serious prayer time then.  I found it is both frustrating and dangerous to try to do this with the kids playing (ask me how I know this!!!)  I find other times to have wonderful prayer time.  My favorites are while washing dishes,  while driving, and the bathroom(the only place I really get to by myself, well most of the time).  In a life full of so many things to do and people to do them for I have to keep focused on what really counts.  If a subject gets pushed aside for my time with the Lord it is ok.  If someone is sick singing praises to Him while rocking the child is a blessed time with my Lord.  I protect my time even though I don't have an allotted time in my schedule.  I know I am nothing with out Him.  I will never be the wife, mother and teacher I know He wants me to be if I neglect my time with Him. Just a note,  the days I do forget or neglect are by far the worst for me and everyone around me.  Just a little warning.  So be of good courage and be strong in the Lord.  He will help you through, all you have to do is ask. In and Through Him Heidi Kemp
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Finding Quiet Time- Andrea

Several of you sent me really wonderful answers for the contest on finding quiet time amidst homeschooling with preschoolers.  Over the next few days, I'll be posting them one-by-one.  You have excellent things to share!

Unfortunately, my technique is not very creative but it is just about making the time. I wake up an hour before the kids to have my quiet time with the Lord. During school weeks my 3 older kids wake up too to have their quiet time and start their math. They know that this is not their time with me. I usually read a 10 minute devotion from One hundred and One Devotions for Homeschool Moms then use the Scripture reference from that to springboard myself into an in-depth reflection of the verse in the Bible. I have also just listened to Marcia Somerville's Toolbox Approach to quiet time and I am starting to use her written charts to maintain my focus on the Lord during my prayer time. The bottom line is just doing it. I used to think of my QT as a small rock rather than a big rock. Sometimes happened and sometimes it did not. Thinking of the rock analogy when you put all your little rocks in your jar (your day) first your big ones can't all fit in as well. But if you put your big ones in first the little ones all fall between the gaps created by the big ones. So now I do my big rocks first and if there is time I work my little rocks in after. Viewing my QT with the Lord as a big rock helps me to give up that extra sleep in the morning and make it a priority. It just doesn't happen later in my day as my house is never quiet once the troops are in full force! -Andrea
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